Anyone who has grown up remembering the 80’s, at least the latter part of it, will remember this quote. “Life moves pretty fast, if you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” One of most people’s favorite 80’s movies was Ferris Bueller’s Day Off (unless it was the Breakfast Club, or 16 Candles, or…), and in that movie I think a lot of people saw a person they wish they would have been. Even now, at 32, I look at this high school kid and I think to myself “wow, this would have been one helluva life.” Of course, that isn’t really the way life goes. First of all, who would have believed that Sloan’s dad would come to pick her up in a 1961 250GT California? Seriously, let’s be honest, he would have come to pick her up in a Ford LTD. I mean, the man was a fireman. What would he possibly want with a Ferrari that rare? And while we’re on that subject, what was Rooney thinking when he was watching Mr. Peterson give a 5-7second frenchy to his daughter in full view of anyone within eye-shot? But I digress, this isn’t what this post is about.
If you’ve seen the movie, you know what follows after they pick up the car, and the girl. Which, brings me to my point; you’ve gotta live a little in order to truly enjoy what small amount of time you have on this earth, and to do that, you have to take some risks.
Does that mean that you need to ditch your responsibilities by any means necessary, take over a parade, crash a power lunch and generally do everything that a normal person could never do? Of course not. But, what’s the point of life anyway if you can’t have a little fun? Tyler Durden told us that he didn’t want “to die without any scars.” There’s the classic quote about sliding into the grave with a drink in one hand and having a body that’s been used to it’s limit, or something to that effect. Go on Pinterest and there are myriad different quotes on people’s quote boards about risk-taking and coloring outside the lines and so on. Why then, if we always put these messages and images and movie scenes in front of us, is it so hard for us to actually DO those things?
Because we get older.
Because we get wiser.
Because we believe it when people say “You’re too old to do this, or that, or whatever, anymore.”
Is it advisable for a 32 year old man to stay out until 4am on a Tuesday, partying and drinking the night away? Not at all, unless your job happens to be to live like this guy. If that’s the case, then by all means, like my buddy Randy says “You got it? Ball out!” Sure, our risks take different forms as we get older and more mature, but that doesn’t mean that they should be avoided by any stretch of the imagination.
Don’t work jobs you hate.
Don’t accept bad treatment from toxic people.
Avoid doing something just because someone tries to guilt-trip you into it.
Follow your heart, no matter what anyone else says, thinks, feels, or opines.
Give into the possibility that maybe, just maybe, your choices made today will work out better for you than what anyone’s wildest dreams for you are.
There are plenty of other words of advice I could give you, but the important thing is that you find your own. You have to find your own path. And, as I said in my last post; right or wrong, you have to be willing to live with the consequences. This is true in love, life, and business. Don’t get so caught up in making plans that you miss your life. You’ll miss one helluva show if you do.
Life moves pretty fast, if you don’t stop to look around once in while, you could miss it.
Until next time; keep ambition in your heart, logic in your mind, and allow yourself to continue the pursuit.